There are no secrets when it comes to dating. What works is well known. Things don’t even change that much across cultures. What works in London will work in Argentina and vice versa.
Basically, it comes down to making a move, escalating and knowing what the response means. Looking good, taking care of yourself etc also help, of course.
Making a move
The first thing to understand, no matter where you are in the world, is that the man has to make the first move. If you don’t understand this, you will get nowhere. It doesn’t matter how good you look – women won’t come to you. At most they might hang around near you waiting for you to say something (asking themselves why you don’t and eventually getting bored and walking away).
This is something that I took a long time to understand and that really would have helped me when I started out. I was a good looking kid and I was one of the lucky few that did get approached by girls, but even then that wasn’t really enough to get something started. When women approach a guy they are very tentative. They think that by simply speaking to a guy or by sitting or standing close that they’ve already done more than enough.
I didn’t understand what it meant they make a move on them and eventually they’d give up and go away. Don’t make my mistake. If you like a girl, make a move.